7 most habits you should
acquire to build a charismatic personality
There is
no doubt that the charismatic personality is one of the fundamentals in any successful
carrier .Some people are remarkably charismatic:
They build and maintain great relationships, consistently influence (in a good
way) the people around them, consistently make people feel better about
themselves--they're the kind of people everyone wants to be around...and wants
to be.
Here are the 10 habits of remarkably
charismatic people:
1. He listens way more
than he talks.
Ask questions. Maintain eye contact.
Smile. Frown. Nod. Respond--not so much verbally, but nonverbally.
That's all it takes to show the other
person they're important.
2. He doesn’t practice selective hearing.
Remarkably he nevertheless your social
position he maintain you on a certain level to keep up your motivation and continuity
for talking
Because we do: We're all people.
3. he puts his stuff away.
No phone no monitor
You can never connect with others if
you're
busy connecting with your stuff, too.
4. He gives before he receive--and often he never
receive.
Never think about what you can get.
Focus on what you can provide. Giving is the only way to establish a real
connection and relationship.
5. He doesn't act self-important…
He doesn’t go like a VIP or makes feel
so to
keep up in your same level
The rest of us aren't impressed.
We're
irritated, put off, and uncomfortable.
And we hate when you walk in the room.
6. …Because he realize other people are more
important.
You already know what you know. You know
your opinions. You know your perspectives and points of view.
That stuff isn't important, because it's
already yours. You can't learn anything from yourself.
But you don't know what other people
know, and everyone, no matter who they are, knows things you don't know.
That makes them a lot more important
than you--because they're people you can learn from.
7. He shines the spotlight on others.
No one receives enough praise. No one.
Tell people what they did well.
Wait, you say you don't know what they
did well?
Shame on you--it's your job to know.
It's your job to find out ahead of time.
Not only will people appreciate your
praise, they'll appreciate the fact you care enough to pay attention to what
they're doing.
Then they'll feel a little more
accomplished and a lot more important.
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